Monday, May 20, 2013

Maksim is ONE! (And I'm finally blogging again!)



Whew!  What a break!  I confess, it was longer than anticipated.  But I'm back now!  Where do I even start?  I have so many photos to post and stories to share.  I think I'll add a post or two each week with throwbacks and photos that I've fallen behind on sharing.  In the meantime, let's get y'all caught up on what's been happening for us!


Checking off some of those New Years Resolutions!  I've finally jumped back into lifting weights, and, in turn, I've been working closely with a couple of girls training them with a couple of weightlifting sessions weekly.  They hit the gym in the morning before the workday begins on Mondays and Fridays, so it's a nice little break for me to spend some time with "adults" while Bryon stays home and watches Maksim.  Plus, I really enjoy helping them meet their physical fitness goals.  Now that we're a few months in, the gains are visible - which is a nice little payoff for all!  And, being in the gym in the mornings with them has encouraged me to get back into real shape myself.  (Along with an invite to do the Summer Fashion Issue for a local magazine.)  So, after Maks has gone to bed at night, I've been doing a 5 day a week lifting routine which kicked my butt into gear in no time.  Now to find the happy medium between lifting enough to see continuous results while relaxing enough to not get burned out!

Back, Biceps & Cardio Thursday!

What else have we been busy with?  Well, we moved into a new house.  Disclaimer: I love not living on base anymore!  It has made a huge difference for me.  Call me crazy, but there's something so "real world" about not having to hand your ID over to a military guard in order to gain access to your own front door.  I finally feel like a live in a real city (not the city I'd choose, but you know how that goes).  It's nice to have neighbors of all ages with a variety of different careers and backgrounds.  And I love the sense of home - some families have lived in their current houses for decades!  Ahh, what a breath of fresh air!

I'm not getting too comfortable, though, because we'll be moving during the Fall move cycle (sometime close to November of this year).  We've seen the list of possible jobs/locations that are available for all of those up for relocation alongside Bryon (about 70 people).  There were a handful of exciting opportunities worldwide, as well as a handful of not-so-exciting opportunities.  Bryon has turned in his preferences (but we know all too well that his preference list may, unfortunately, pay absolutely no role in deciding where he's placed...let's hope that's not the case), so all we can do now is sit and wait to see where he ends up being placed. The good thing this time around is that Bryon can decline his placement and separate if he so chooses.  Our window of notice is about 6 weeks long and begins at the very end of this month - we should know by early July!

In other news, our little Boo-Boo had a growth on her stomach that I'd noticed about a year ago.  It was tiny and you could almost have mistaken it for one of her nipples.  However, I could tell that it was suddenly beginning to bother Kira, and she'd lick it quite often.  Over the course of a week it almost doubled in size (to the size of a pencil eraser), so we scheduled a quick procedure to have it removed.  Luckily, the surgery went without a hitch and the pathology results were nothing of concern.  I'm so very thankful!  Here she is post-op and dreaming of playing ball.


Hmmm, what else have I been doing these past 3 months?  Well, I finally made the decision to become a certified labor and birth doula.  I'm excited to help local mama's-to-be welcome their babies into the world!  Although the majority of my experiences will remain confidential, rest assured that I'm incredibly happy to encourage women to birth naturally and empower them to believe in the capabilities of their bodies to deliver happy, healthy babies!

Did I mention that Maksim is walking?  That's old news, seeing as he started walking as soon as he turned 10 months old.  I'll be uploading the video soon so you all can take a look at his first day on his very own two feet!  Now that he's been upright for a few months, he doesn't walk all that much.  What he does do is run, Run, RUN!  He's always on the go!

Oh yeah, I'm an Aunt now, too!  Lots of love to my sister, Matt and their precious little baby boy up in Alaska!  With a birthday less than 24 hours away from Maksim's, their new addition is now exactly three weeks old...and just waiting to be snuggled by me!

Which leads me to the final large event worth mentioning:  OUR LITTLE MAN TURNED ONE!!! You know what that means...HAPPY HOUR (Oh, that's not what you were thinking???)!


We had a small gathering with friends (none of whom have any children of their own).  But it was nice to celebrate, nonetheless.  Actually, it was more of a party to congratulate Bryon and myself for making it through Maks' first year (let's be honest - it was pretty much a breeze for Maksim)!  Thanks to all who were able to take some time and celebrate with us!

I tried to keep everything low key and casual.  I stuck with the Happy Hour theme and added a bit of custom "Little Man" flair.  Thanks to Bryon for bearing with me while I insisted on including some homemade party decor.


(Hank's Root Beer is my weakness.  And paper straws?  Yes, please!)
Can anybody guess what Bryon's weakness is?  (Totally kidding!)

Although we had a proper cake smash scheduled for a later time, we decided to give Maks a go with a cupcake at his party.




In the end, I don't think he actually consumed anything.  What he did do, however, was forcefully fling fist-fulls of frosting onto the floor.

Presents were a hit!  I was prepared to need to help unwrap most of the boxes, but Little Man is Mr. Independent.


He figured out this pounding ball toy right away!  Now, he plays with it daily (although I did catch him pounding Kira's head the other day...she's such a trooper - just sat there and put up with it).



Uncle Roger, Aunt Marsha and cousin Matthew sent him a riding toy.  Well, he doesn't really ride on it.  Instead, he chooses to give bystanders heart attacks as he uses it like a skateboard and balances while standing on the seat.  We are in for trouble!

"Oh, this looks like fun..."
"...this blue platform is perfect for standing on!"
"So I just sit here?  Clearly, you old people don't know the first thing about how to properly use this toy.  Amateurs."

Happy Birthday, Maks!  One year old and going strong!  Although you've averaged out in weight and height (50th-75th percentiles), Dr. Ritch says you've got a genius sized head (95+ percentile).  We love you just the way you are!

Moustache bash!  This one's for Grandpa Tom!
Catch me if you can!

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Happy Valentine's Day!

Maks and Kira: A Love Story


He's so anxious for her arrival that he's nervously chewing on the blinds...


M: "Hey girl, I was wondering..."


K: "What's up, buddy?"


M: "I was just wondering...Will you be my Valentine?"



K: "Aww, don't be so shy, little stud!"


K: "I thought you'd never ask!"



 Happy Valentine's Day 2013!



Best buds!



Now...IT'S MAMA'S TURN!!!

Step 1.  You know something's up when I go and buy some bright red lipstick.  I never buy lipstick.




 Step 2:  Attack with love.  (Don't be overly particular about the outcome.  Babies squirm about.  It happens.)

Step 3:  Take photos before he has the chance to roll over and run away.


Try to get him to give a big smile...

...even though it's just minutes before bedtime.

"Why is Da-da jumping around and flailing his arms like that?  And what kind of noise was that??  He's SO strange." 
Most importantly, know that when you get a big smile, he'll cover it with his hands. 

Step 4:  Pick him up as soon as he manages to get exactly 1 lip print on the couch (which he thinks is hilarious).

Our fool proof way to get Maks to smile: put him in the air.

He never gets tired of flying!

The two top front teeth have made their debut.  We've got a total of 5 now!

Step 5:  Bath time.  (Might I add that lipstick has apparently come a long ways since I used it as a kid. I scrubbed and Scrubbed and SCRUBBED this kid, and he still went to bed with faint little lip prints all over his body.  Sweet dreams, my little Valentine!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

"Time keeps on slippin', slippin', slippin'..."

"........Into the future."

So, we celebrated New Years in true "new parents" style.  Bulleted outline as follows:

  • 5:00 party time.
    Maks was thrilled to have his very own glass. 
He drank from that flute like a champ!
Party horns?
Count Kira in!
Smiling nicely for Da-da!

  • Self-timer family photos!  (And baby sound asleep by 6pm.) 
Wish this camera view was just a little bit lower!  
Gotta take what you can get with an 8 month old!  Who wants to sit around and smile at a blinking light???
Maks would much rather sneak a drink while we wait for the camera to take our picture!

  • Quick dinner and celebratory beverage.  
Nothing says "Happy New Year" like homemade pizza, right?
And champagne...
...in a frosted beer glass.
(Served by this guy.)

  • Wrote down goals and resolutions for 2013.
We have quite the list.  Some goals/resolutions are personal and some are for our family.  Some will be easy to carry out while others will be very challenging.  Here are just a few:
  1. Monthly date nights.  (We are needing this SO SO SO badly.  As well as a babysitter.)
  2. Stop biting my nails/cuticles (I think this has been on my list since I was a teenager.)  Time to invest in some regularly scheduled manicures.  As much as this sounds like a luxury to most girls, I honestly need to prep my fingers for at least 2 weeks just to prepare to go to the salon.  Bleeding fingers and bandaids be gone!  
  3. Spend more one-on-one time with Kira.  Brushing her (my job) and walking her without a stroller in tow (Bryon's job) daily.
  4. Commit to learning the ins and outs of my DSLR.
  5. Weekly yoga class together.
  6. Family bike rides on Sunday afternoons.
  7. Visit the gun range once a week (our firearms have been in storage since we left TX).
  8. Run 1/2 marathon.
  9. Run 10K BAREFOOT (I've run a maximum of 8 miles barefoot, but Bryon hasn't.)
  10. Dedicate a larger portion of earnings to our savings accounts.
  11. Make a conscious effort to develop our very own family Holiday/seasonal traditions.
  12. Plan an end of year family vacation.
  13. Bryon's joining me with my regular visits to the chiropractor to maintain wellness and proper alignment/posture.
  14. Learn to play an instrument (both of us).  I'm leaning towards picking up the piano again (haven't played since childhood) while Bryon is going to give the acoustic guitar (that I bought in TX) a go.
  15. Read at least one new book every month.
  16. Construct and abide by a family calendar to help organize our tasks and accomplish our goals. 
  17. Disconnect/reconnect (see below).
Whew, add that to all of the other items that I didn't list...as well as a job change for Bryon (whether a new job with the military or a job outside of the Air Force), relocation to a new house/state, and keeping up with our busy body son - including celebrating his very first birthday...and we might not find any time to sleep!  Just kidding.  Sleep is probably the #1 priority on our list.  Seriously, we just had a baby less than a year ago; we're still playing catch up.  Y'all must think we're crazy or something!

  • In bed before 9pm (Hey, at least we dressed up!)

A little bit more on #17.  I'm not giving up blogging, but I am planning to post a bit less frequently - at least for the time being.  One of my New Years resolutions is to avoid using my phone or computer until (at the very least) Maksim goes to bed for the night.  I'm focusing on devoting my time to him while he's awake.  And, now that he is sleeping through the night without nursing (until at least 5am), I'm catching up on sleep due to many months of accumulated deprivation.  Plus, I have about 50 other things on my to-do list.  Blogging will fall in line, just amongst a variety of other miscellaneous tasks...cooking, cleaning, loving on my pup, working out, spending some quality time with my spouse...you know how it goes.  It's all about balance.

My ultimate goal is to be parent who participates.  And, quite frankly, the satisfaction that my son expresses when he snags my cell phone or laptop just hits home too hard.  He's becoming quite skilled at the game of see-do, so I'm putting 100% of my efforts to setting a good example and being present/in the moment with my boy.  Technology will eventually play a large role in Maks' life, I'm certain (I'm not planning to ban it from our house - that would completely disadvantage my son.).  But what technology won't be is something that drives Maks' mama's attention away from him when he's just 8 months old.  So, for the time being, I'm loosening my ties to my the web and connecting more deeply with my family at home.

Happy New Year from the Kroger's (to-do item #5,826...officially change my last name)!